Backhanding should be done with extra caution. A Few Asides, somewhat
What’s more giving in this type of play/scene than being slapped then immediately presenting one’s face for the next slap, front and center? Indian hot xxx How about the calm before the storm where the face is warmly and lovingly caressed then suddenly delivered a solid slap in the same area, or the sensory deprivation slap where the intended has no idea of the slap to come, or the tap slap where lighter hits are given repeatedly and quickly, or the regimented slap, a Sergeant Major vs Private in-your-face type of slapping style. Go ahead. Just don’t do it. Many tops, being sadistic and non-masochistic, simply won’t hit themselves hard enough to understand. Remember, I am no expert, so everything here is seasoned with a grain of salt already for you. After all, any contact with another person’s face is an intimate act. I salute you. A top’s understanding/empathy is also a vital element in avoiding a backlash of resentment and anger from a bottom, as well as fear and sadness. 4 – Slap them. Without careful application, undesired feelings can be evoked by slapping.
